Gossip has a pull to it. Not because it’s meaningful—but because it gives you something quick. A story. A position. A sense of knowing without having to actually know anything at all.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/do-you-get-sucked-in-by-gossip","title":"Do you get sucked in by gossip?","summary":"Gossip has a pull to it. Not because it’s meaningful—but because it gives you something quick. A story. A position. A sense of knowing without having to actually know anything at all.","date_modified":"2026-04-14T15:32:47Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/im-not-the-same-experience-anymore","html_content":"I wonder what it feels like to be on the other side of me now that I don’t respond the way I used to.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/im-not-the-same-experience-anymore","title":"I'm not the same experience anymore.","summary":"I wonder what it feels like to be on the other side of me now that I don’t respond the way I used to.","date_modified":"2026-04-13T12:43:52Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/premeditated-resentment","html_content":"There’s a kind of resentment that doesn’t come from what someone did.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/premeditated-resentment","title":"Premeditated Resentment?","summary":"There’s a kind of resentment that doesn’t come from what someone did.","date_modified":"2026-04-12T21:32:29Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/i-don%E2%80%99t-even-really-have-the-words-for-this","html_content":"I’m sitting here this morning, and I can feel it in my chest — like I can’t even catch my breath.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/i-don%E2%80%99t-even-really-have-the-words-for-this","title":"I don’t even really have the words for this.","summary":"I’m sitting here this morning, and I can feel it in my chest — like I can’t even catch my breath.","date_modified":"2026-04-09T20:17:40Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/how-do-you-treat-yourself-after-you-didn%E2%80%99t-show-up-the-way-you-in","html_content":"Not in theory—but in the exact moment where you can feel it slip.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/how-do-you-treat-yourself-after-you-didn%E2%80%99t-show-up-the-way-you-in","title":"How do you treat yourself after you react or make a mistake?","summary":"Not in theory—but in the exact moment where you can feel it slip.","date_modified":"2026-04-03T14:31:20Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/who-are-you-when-it-matters","html_content":"Not when things are easy.\nNot when you’re understood.\nNot when everything is moving the way you want it to.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/who-are-you-when-it-matters","title":"Who are you when it matters?","summary":"Not when things are easy.\nNot when you’re understood.\nNot when everything is moving the way you want it to.","date_modified":"2026-04-02T16:38:49Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/what-are-you-good-at","html_content":"There were things I could do well long before I understood what I was meant to do deeply.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/what-are-you-good-at","title":"What are you good at?","summary":"There were things I could do well long before I understood what I was meant to do deeply.","date_modified":"2026-04-01T20:21:04Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/in-the-middle-of-it","html_content":"It doesn’t come at the beginning. It doesn’t stop anything right away. But somewhere in the middle of the reaction, I can feel it—a small shift that wasn’t there before.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/in-the-middle-of-it","title":"In the Middle of It","summary":"It doesn’t come at the beginning. It doesn’t stop anything right away. But somewhere in the middle of the reaction, I can feel it—a small shift that wasn’t there before.","date_modified":"2026-03-29T19:00:00Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/what-is-approval-costing-you","html_content":"There was a time when I said yes before I checked in with myself.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/what-is-approval-costing-you","title":"What is Approval Costing You?","summary":"There was a time when I said yes before I checked in with myself.","date_modified":"2026-03-28T13:09:00Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/strength","html_content":"Strength doesn’t feel calm.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/strength","title":"Strength","summary":"Strength doesn’t feel calm.","date_modified":"2026-03-28T12:01:25Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/i-still-react","html_content":"I can feel it before I can stop it. The tightening, the speed, the shift in how I see everything in front of me. It happens fast. Faster than the part of me that knows better.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/i-still-react","title":"I Still React","summary":"I can feel it before I can stop it. The tightening, the speed, the shift in how I see everything in front of me. It happens fast. Faster than the part of me that knows better.","date_modified":"2026-03-26T16:00:00Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/i-was-never-a-quitter","html_content":"There was a time I was told I was a quitter.
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/i-was-never-a-quitter","title":"I Was Never a Quitter","summary":"There was a time I was told I was a quitter.","date_modified":"2026-03-25T22:41:57Z"},{"id":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/staying","html_content":"![](\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/bebc2d47-5e93-4fce-bfdd-cace6bd68bf3/blob.png\"/)
I didn’t always know how to stay. I thought staying meant something had gone wrong—that I was stuck and just hadn’t found the way out yet. So I learned to move quickly. To find the next step, the next answer, the next sh...
","url":"https://lucycicero.com/reflections-from-lucy/f/staying","title":"Staying","summary":"I didn’t always know how to stay. I thought staying meant something had gone wrong—that I was stuck and just hadn’t found the way out yet. So I learned to move quickly. To find the next step, the next answer, the next sh...","date_modified":"2026-03-24T23:26:28Z"}]}